While many people equate a divorce with a lot of drama, this doesn’t have to be the case. It is possible for two reasonable adults to pursue a divorce in a respectful manner without having to battle with each other at every turn. By making the decision to take on this task together, they can reap several benefits.
If you and your ex are willing to compromise on the divorce terms, you will likely be able to go through mediation to get these matters settled. Going through this instead of taking your case through a trial can help you considerably as long as you and your ex can both put your differences aside to make decisions.
Your kids can benefit
Your kids will likely benefit from being able to watch you and your ex behave respectfully toward each other. This can help them to learn skills that can make adulthood a bit easier for them. Because you are working with your ex, you can make decisions that are best for the children. You can do this quickly so they can adjust to the new way of life, which will help them to feel more stable.
You can save money
When you go through mediation, you don’t have to pay the attorney to go through a trial. This can save you a lot of money in the long run because you won’t have to worry about waiting for a trial date. Your divorce will likely be finalized quickly if you go this route. Even when you agree on the terms, it can take months to divorce. Disagreeing about things can increase that time considerably.
You have more control
Because you and your ex are negotiating the terms of the divorce, you have more control over what happens when you choose to go through mediation instead of going through a trial. If you go through the trial, the judge issues orders based on the evidence and you don’t have a say in what happens.
Throughout the divorce, you must ensure that you know your rights and responsibilities. Your attorney can help you with these, as well as finding out what options you have for the various decisions you will have to make. Going into the divorce knowing what to expect can help you to make it through the process with less stress, especially if you and your ex agree to end the marriage amicably.