Honolulu Child Custody Attorneys
Giving Your Child the Best Life Possible
Reaching an intelligent resolution of child custody issues is one of the
most emotionally intense aspects of divorce cases. Ideally, parents will
be able to work out custody arrangements amicably. Our child custody lawyers
in Honolulu will be by your side throughout the process to help you reach
an agreement that works for both you and your ex and, most importantly,
that benefits your child(ren).
Coates Frey Tanimoto & Gibson, AAL, LLLC attorneys are available to
help you settle the emotionally charged child custody issues in your case.
Call us today to review your case:
Two Types of Custody
Divorcing spouses can decide with whom the children will live. There are
two basic forms of custody: legal and physical. Each of these can, in
turn, be broken down into sole or joint custody. Not surprisingly, if
the parties cannot reach their own agreement on this issue, the court
will enter an order awarding custody, and often if left to the court's
discretion, neither party is too happy about the results.
Legal Custody: Legal custody centers on decision-making authority. It refers to the decision-making
process as to exactly how the child(ren) will be raised. This includes
choices on educational, medical, religious, and other major issues in
the child’s life. It does not, however, include day-to-day or routine
Physical Custody: Physical custody generally focuses on the child’s actual residence
and the parental time-sharing and visitation schedules. Physical custody
refers to where the child will physically live and which parent the child
will live with. Physical custody may be "sole" or "joint."
If "sole," the child resides primarily with one parent. If "joint,"
the child resides with each parents on a relatively equal basis.
The parent who does not have sole physical custody usually has “reasonable”
visitation rights. In other words, he or she can see the children during
certain scheduled times (often alternating weekends). If the parents cannot
agree, the court will set up a visitation schedule.
Our lawyers will help you obtain and maintain reasonable visitation and
custody in your case.
Contact us for assistance today. We proudly serve Oahu and the neighboring islands.
Can I Move After I Get Divorced?
Sharing custody of children can be challenging enough when both parents
live on the same island. When a custodial parent wishes to move, it can
have a profound effect on the child(ren) and their relationship with the
In Hawaii, a parent with primary physical custody of children usually needs
approval from the other parent or the court before he or she can move
the child(ren) off the island. If the other parent is opposed to the move,
the relocating parent needs to prove that the move is in the best interests
of the child(ren).
Our attorneys at Coates Frey Tanimoto & Gibson, AAL, LLLC often represent
parents who want to move away with the child(ren). We also represent parents
who oppose an ex’s relocation request.
Modifying Visitation After a Move
If a primary custodial parent moves, the parents will need to draft a new
custody and visitation order. There are a lot of options when it comes
to long-distance visitation that can ensure that both parents receive
quality time with children. For example, you may request fewer but longer
visits. Virtual visitation via video chat may also be a part of your visitation order.
For more information regarding relocation after divorce and how it may
affect your custody orders, call our Honolulu custody attorneys at