
Serving Clients on Oahu & All Neighboring Islands
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Honolulu Divorce Attorneys
Providing Exceptional Family Law Service to Hawaii's Communities for Over Three Decades
Coates Frey & Hackett, AAL LLLC is Hawaii’s largest and arguably one of the best known divorce and family law firms. Our Honolulu divorce lawyers have dedicatedly handled over 30,000 cases across the Hawaiian Islands in all subcategories of family law, including adoption, child custody and child support, divorce, prenuptial agreements, restraining orders, and more.
Our team's size and years of experience set us apart from other family law practices on Oahu and throughout our Island State and allows us to approach your case with a depth of knowledge and level of care that is unmatched.
Our practice is infused with our passion for community and the aloha spirit. Our Honolulu divorce attorneys are welcoming, courteous, and thoughtful. There's something very uplifting and motivating about knowing your legal meetings will often start with a warm "aloha!" and a genuine smile.
Our firm's approach emphasizes civil-minded settlements that are handled amicably and free from messy courtroom conflicts. Our Honolulu divorce attorney's goal is to provide you with maximum benefits at minimum costs.

We approach our cases in an akamai and hands-on fashion. We pride ourselves on being responsive and approachable to all our clients. Everyone in the office, from our attorneys to our seasoned support staff, is available to serve you and address whatever needs, concerns, or questions you have.


Representation You Can Count On
Our Diverse Team Is Ready to Help Your Family-
P. Gregory Frey
Senior Attorney
P. Gregory Frey is our senior attorney and one of the partners of our firm. Beyond the many roles he fills and contributions ... -
Shannon Kim Hackett
Managing Attorney
Shannon Kim Hackett’s career has been recognized as exceptional from the start. A Bill & Melinda Gates Scholar, Shannon ... -
Paul W. Soenksen
Senior Counsel
Paul W. Soenksen, Senior Counsel of Coates Frey & Hackett, AAL LLLC, is an accomplished attorney and experienced speaker. ... -
Bradley A. Coates (Retired)
Founder, Author of "Divorce With Decency"
RETIRED, NO LONGER ACTIVELY PRACTICING LAW. Bradley A. Coates was our firm's founder and the author of Hawaii's award winning ... -
Amberlynn Alualu
Associate Attorney
Amberlynn O. Alualu is an invaluable addition to our firm and is a member of our firm’s Paternity Practice Group & Domestic ... -
Zoe Hernandez
Associate Attorney
Zoe M. Hernandez is an invaluable addition to our firm and is head of our firm’s Paternity Practice Group. At Coates Frey & ... -
Justin Y.D Tsai
Associate Attorney
Justin Y.D. Tsai is a powerful addition to our legal team. At Coates Frey & Hackett, AAL LLLC, he concentrates on family law ... -
Robert S. Young
Associate Attorney
Robert S.N. Young has exceled as an established legal professional in Honolulu for decades. At Coates Frey & Hackett, AAL ...

We Treat Our Clients Like Family
At Coates Frey & Hackett, AAL LLLC, your ‘ohana becomes our ‘ohana. Our Honolulu divorce lawyers excitedly welcome our clients to our relaxed offices and offer a personalized approach to your case. We offer warmth and encouragement in our consults, listen to your concerns, and fight for your goals.
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THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH!!!!
“Tom, Jenn, and Zoe helped make this process so easy. Although the other lawyer dragged things out, Tom, Jenn, and Zoe understood me and were responsive to my needs and the complexity of the other ...”
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Very professional.
“Very professional courteous, and respectful. Thank you.”
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Bob was always on the same page as me and he always had my best interest at heart.
“Bob was always on the same page as me and he always had my best interest at heart.”
- J.B. -
I appreciate her ability to manage compassion and justice.
“I appreciate her ability to manage compassion and justice.”
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Mr. Bob Young has been attentive and invested in my case since it has begun.
“His efforts were evidenced by a speedy decision in the first stage of our case, he and his team are dedicated, professionals and will help in anyway that they can, highly recommended...military friend ...”
- D.F.
How We Can Help You
Types of Cases We Handle
Check Out Attorney Bradley Coates's Award-Winning Book: "Divorce with Decency"


The Philosophy Behind Our Practice
Our philosophy is founded upon Hawaii's famed principles and spirit of "aloha." It's our goal to provide cost- and time-effective legal assistance in that way. We welcome our clients as our family. You are one of us. We treat you with the respect and kindness you deserve and fight for results and settlements that best serve you.

Serving Honolulu, Oahu, and the Neighbor Islands
Our firm is based in Honolulu but is available to clients on all Hawaiian Islands. Each of our attorneys is familiar with one or more of the Hawaiian Islands and the unique people, judges, and courts they are home to. We use this knowledge and experience to approach your case with a familiarity and comfort that allows us to excel for your benefit and meet your goals.

