About 'Ohana Is Everything

About Coates Frey & Hackett, AAL LLLC

Hawaii’s Largest & Arguably Best Known Family Law Firm

Our Honolulu firm reflects the diversity and friendliness of Hawaii. Our lawyers care about you and grow familiar with your unique concerns. Our goal is to provide the experience, skill, and sensitivity needed to consistently achieve superior results at reasonable costs. We have worked with more than 20,000 satisfied clients on Honolulu, Oahu, and the neighboring islands over the past 30 years. We invite you to become one of them.

At Coates Frey & Hackett, AAL LLLC, we take pride in the size, spirit, and structure of our law firm. We are deliberately organized to be as responsive and user-friendly as possible. Our attorneys all have excellent academic backgrounds but were also selected for their qualities as “people people.” Explore their profiles and become familiar with their experience, specialties, and professional accomplishments.

Family Law Akamai Fashion

Everyone on our team, from our lawyers to our secretarial and paralegal staff, functions in an akamai “hands-on” fashion. Many of our secretaries have formal paralegal training. Others have ten or more years of substantive, on-the-job experience with our firm. We pride ourselves on the permanence and longevity of our staff. Unlike many firms where phone messages may linger for weeks, we always strive to return every phone call and try our best to answer the client’s questions the very same day. For exceptional service and care for your family law case, come to Coates Frey & Hackett, AAL LLLC.


    “Tom, Jenn, and Zoe helped make this process so easy. Although the other lawyer dragged things out, Tom, Jenn, and Zoe understood me and were responsive to my needs and the complexity of the other ...”

    - M.C.
  • Very professional.

    “Very professional courteous, and respectful. Thank you.”

    - T.R.
  • Bob was always on the same page as me and he always had my best interest at heart.

    “Bob was always on the same page as me and he always had my best interest at heart.”

    - J.B.
  • I appreciate her ability to manage compassion and justice.

    “I appreciate her ability to manage compassion and justice.”

    - S.S.
  • Mr. Bob Young has been attentive and invested in my case since it has begun.

    “His efforts were evidenced by a speedy decision in the first stage of our case, he and his team are dedicated, professionals and will help in anyway that they can, highly recommended...military friend ...”

    - D.F.

Our Family Promise

Why Choose Our Team
  • Family Minded, Solutions Focused

    We are here to help you come to an amicable resolution as efficiently as possible. Our collaborative approach provides results in a timely manner.

  • Helping Clients On All Islands

    Each of our attorneys devotes a significant amount of time on different Hawaiian islands. Whether you're on the Big Island or Kauai, you have us on your side.

  • Highly Experienced Team in Family Law

    From our newest paralegal to our most experienced attorneys, you'll have someone who understands the ins and outs of family law in every circuit and every family law courtroom in our Island State.

  • Wrote the Book About Divorce in Hawaii

    Our team holds the principles of Divorce With Decency close. This book is referenced by legal professionals in our Island State.

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