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The psychological impact of a divorce can be hard to overcome. Humans tend to focus on the difficult aspects of major changes instead of seeing them as productive experiences. When you are in this position, you need to learn how to retrain your mind so that you are able to focus on the positive aspects of the new course of…
Abuse in a marriage can take many forms. Physical abuse is much easier for both the victim and others to identify, but spouses in Hawaii need to also be aware of what constitutes non-physical abuse, which are emotional and psychological. According to HuffPost, subtle signs of an abusive relationship often start early on. These are the same signs that make someone seem…
Going through a high-conflict divorce is a challenging experience for even those who want to see the marriage end. Throughout the time that you are going through the divorce and in the period after, you might need to work on reducing your stress and recovering from all the drama. This may not be easy, but it is beneficial. You can’t…
Couples in Hawaii who decide to get a divorce, but do not want it to be a contentious process, may want to consider mediation. This method uses a third-party mediator to help each partner work through decisions regarding asset division, alimony and child custody. When couples communicate and prepare correctly, mediation can cost much less than litigation and it is…
When you recognize that you are disagreeing with your spouse more than you are enjoying happy and content moments, it may be time to reevaluate your relationship and what changes have caused you to experience increased discord. Depending on the nature of your relationship and the conditions that are contributing to the contention, you may have the chance to discuss…
A manipulative spouse is difficult to deal with because they will push and push until they get their way. The techniques that they use can often make you feel negatively about yourself. They might cause stress in your home. You may always feel guilty or like you did something wrong. This isn’t a way to live, so you decide that…
Holiday gifts are a reflection of concern for other people and a natural desire to build relationships with friends, family members and even casual acquaintances. Gifts can range from a simple gesture of appreciation (like the tip you give your dog groomer or mailman) to a much deeper message of understanding and kinship toward someone you love. If you know…
By the time you sought a divorce, was your marriage already long over? If so, you may well be ready to move on. It can be difficult to put your romantic life on hold, especially when you’re enjoying the new-found sense of freedom that comes with ending a bad relationship. If you want to get through your divorce with a…
Most people dread the first holiday season after their divorce for a variety of reasons. The longer you were married, the more accustomed you’ve probably become to celebrating holidays as part of a couple. Here are some tips that can help you cut through the doubt that surrounds you and make your holidays a little brighter: Don’t stay home alone…
It probably doesn’t surprise you to learn that money is a major source of discord between couples. It might surprise you, however, to learn that having a lot of money can be just as detrimental to a relationship as not having enough — especially if your expenses tend to match your income or one spouse doesn’t work. Any couple that…